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Find Love at the Best Bars for Singles in San Francisco!

When you’re looking to meet singles in San Francisco, you might not want to go to the same old places because you’re going to meet the same old people. If you strike out too many times, it can be a little defeating. However, when you step out of your comfort zone and check out new places, you’re increasing your chances of meeting someone new.

It doesn’t matter if you’re straight, gay, bi-curious, or just looking for a companion; check out these awesome places so you can meet incredible people!

Rocks Den

The Rocks Den is somewhere you can go that is going to feel like your home away from home, but with a much, much better vibe. Here, you can have your favorite beer or cocktail, catch one of the many games on the large TVs, and just enjoy the atmosphere. When you come to a place like Rocks Den, finding love in San Francisco comes much easier because there’s no pressure and you can just relax. If you want to meet locals, this is going to be the place to do it. Oh and Happy Hour is the perfect time to meet professionals who want to unwind after a long day at the office. Sweet!

Visit Them At:
4431 Mission St.
San Francisco, Ca. 94112
(415) 769-5100
Sun – Wed: 4pm – 1am
Thurs – Sat: 4pm 2am

Black Cat

Black Cat is the place if you want a full sense of what the San Francisco dating scene is all about. Here, you’ll get great food, better drinks, and enjoy live music right in the heart of the city. The venue combines glam with grit offering the perfect space to talk music, art and romance.  If you’re hungry, you can chow down on delicious plates that are perfect for sharing with someone you may have just met at the bar. If you hit it off, celebrate with a flute of champagne! Cheers!

Visit Them At:
400 Eddy St.
San Francisco, Ca. 94109
(415) 358-1999
Wed-Sat 5:30pm – 2am
Sun-Mon 5:30pm –1am

Bond Bar

If you’re looking for a bit of history with your drinks, you’ve got to check out Bond Bar. This place was built in the 1800s, but due to an earthquake in 1906, the place had to be rebuilt. Some would say that this bar was cursed because an intense fire in 1976 gutted the top two floors of the space, where you can still see some char marks at the top of the steps. That didn’t keep this place down though! Today, this is one of the premier places where singles like to go to unwind, enjoy a drink or two, and take in the beauty that this place has to offer. Come dressed to impress if you want to make a good impression!

Visit Them At:
3079 16th St.
San Francisco, Ca. 94110
(415) 735-4499
Sat – Sun: 4pm – 2am
Mon – Fri: 4:30pm – 2am


If you’ve been wishing to find someone that you could connect with, enjoy great music and drinks, then you’re going to WISH you heard about this place sooner (like what we did there?) WISH is at the edge of San Fran’s SOMA district and it features the best house music in the area. What really stands out about this venue is that it once was an iron forge, but it was transformed into an intimate den where you can languish in wood, rich velvet, leather, and candles. WISH is going to be the place where you’re going to want to get up close and personal with someone, for sure.

Visit Them At:
1539 Folsom St.
San Francisco, CA 94103
(415) 496-9530
Tues – Fri: 5pm – 2am
Sat: 7pm – 12am
Happy Hour:
5pm to 8pm

Holy Water

When you step inside Holy Water, it’s almost like you’re being taken back in time to a temple of worship. However, the only thing being worshipped here is alcohol and a good time. You’ll find that when you come to Holy Water, you’ll be surrounded by church themed décor, whether it is the holy water bottles on the wall, the baptism mural on the wall, or the tithe buckets. Don’t worry about being preached too because the only rules you’ll gave to follow are the 10 cocktails to abide by: Jungle Bird (black rum, Campari, pineapple and lime) or Search for the Holy Gimlet (gin, cucumber and lemon) are just a small sample. So, if you feel like skipping actual church, come pray here!

Visit Them At:
309 Cortland Ave.
San Francisco, CA. 94110
(415) 638-6129
Mon – Sat: 4pm – 2am
Sun: 2pm – 2am
Happy Hours:
Available From Opening ‘til 7pm

Bootie SF

If you’re looking for a great singles adventure, you should check out the Bootie Mashup parties at DNA Lounge. Bootie SF is like a melting pot of everything San Francisco nightlife has to offer, with four different rooms of music (and people) to explore. The main room specializes in bootleg mashups, those DJ creations that take two or more familiar songs and “mash” them together, and each week is a different theme. There’s also an 11pm stage show, featuring drag queens, burlesque, aerial acts, or their house band, Smash-Up Derby. So if you’ve ever wondered what Metallica and Run DMC would sound like together, or Britney Spears singing with Daft Punk, this is going to be your chance to hear it.

Visit Them At:
375 11th Street, San Francisco, CA 94013
Saturday nights from 9pm-4am


When you step up to the bar at Chambers, you’re greeted with one clear message: Be Amazing. If you’re hoping to meet girls in San Francisco, that is exactly what you’re going to have to do! The venue feels like it came right out of the 1950s and that definitely works in its favor. People really come here for the poolside dining and drinking patio, the only of which exists in the city! If you do get hungry, Chambers offers an impressive dinner menu that is comprised of regular sized plates, but also smaller dishes. You can also check out the wine list for your favorite vintage.

Visit Them At:
601 Eddy Street
San Francisco, Ca. 94109
(415) 496-5178
Tues – Fri: 5pm – 1 am
Sat: 10:30am – 2pm | 5:30pm – 2 am
Sun: 10:30am – 2pm

The Monk’s Kettle

When it comes to San Francisco best bars for singles, Monk’s Kettle is going to be a place where the locals like to go to enjoy great food, unique drinks, and socialize amongst one another. This is going to be your quintessential watering hole that everyone is going to want to be. The food here all made from scratch and it offers seasonal fare. There are plenty of beers to choose from (28 drafts, 1 cask engine, and even 150 varieties in a bottle). If you’re a fan of beer, this will be the place for you.  Also if if you prefer wine or cider, don’t worry, they have  small but excellent wine and cider lists as well.  Plus, if you want to try something new, the knowledgeable staff can walk you through the wide range of styles of beer, both local and Belgian brews!

Visit Them At:
3141 16th St.
San Francisco, Ca. 94103
(415) 865-9523
Sun – Weds: 12pm – 12am
Thurs – Sat: 12pm – 2am

Alchemist Bar and Lounge

For those who are looking for a place to meet single ladies in San Francisco that has a unique feel to it, then you may want to check out Alchemist Bar and Lounge. This venue is the perfect spot to visit after work or just to relax and enjoy a night of cocktails. The house cocktail menu uses a variety of herbs and tinctures from a Chinese herbalist. The venue has a rotating bartender program, which means you’re never going to have the same drink twice (unless you visit the venue several times within two weeks!). If you’re hoping for something that is a bit unique, the steampunk décor and speakeasy vibe of this bar are really going to be an enlightening experience.

Visit Them At:
679 3rd Street
San Francisco, CA 94107
(415) 746-9968
Mon – Fri: 5pm – 1:30am
Sat: 7pm – 1:30am


When you’re looking for a casual neighborhood bar that doubles as a gastropub, you’ve got to check out Woodbury, because here they embrace the drinking culture – not for the sake of getting drunk, but because it offers rewards like “confidence for the shy, clarity for the uncertain, solace for the wounded and lonely, and the elusive promises of friendship and love,” as said by Peter Hamill. It doesn’t matter if you’re new to the city or if you’re a regular, everyone is treated the same! Plus, who can pass up a happenin’ happy hour? No one, that’s who!

Visit Them At:
685 3rd St.
San Francisco, Ca. 94107
(415) 475-9398
Mon – Fri: 4:30pm – 1:30am
Sat: 6:30pm – 1:30am

Black Bird

If you’re looking for a classy bar that embraces gay dating San Francisco, Black Bird  is going to be a fantastic place to check out. The eclectic mix of people that frequents the bar is what truly makes the place stand out from the rest. If you happen to like unique cocktails at an affordable price, then you’re going to enjoy the atmosphere here. You’ll be able to enjoy a variety of beverages, be it a seasonal cocktail like the “Oath Breaker” or any beers, whiskey, wines, and so much more. The venue also features singles events San Francisco locals and visitors can even check out! What more could you ask for?

Visit Them At:
2124 Market St.
San Francisco, Ca. 94114
(415) 503-0630
Mon – Fri: 3pm – 2am
Sat – Sun: 2pm – 2am
Happy Hours:
Mon – Fri: 5pm – 8pm


Hawthorn can be found a few blocks away from Union Square in a lovely brick basement underneath the busy streets of San Fran. Two centuries ago, the venue used to be a brothel and drug store, but today it is a great little bar that you can go for a perfectly blended craft cocktail and a chill nightlight. The space oozes sophisticated sexiness. However, if you want something a little more private, you might want to check out the Bonaparte Room for a 1930s Hollywood glam look and feel. Now they ‘re more of a hybrid venue, hosting craft cocktails and chill atmosphere during  happy hours and mid-week days and then ramp up into more of a nightlife vibe with dj’s and dancing on Thursday, Fridays and Saturdays. The VOID sound system is what really makes the party that much more exciting than other venues in the city.  While you may not be able to have a good conversation, you can at least bust a move or two with some sexy single!

Visit Them At:
46 Geary St.
San Francisco, Ca. 94108
(415) 693-9255
Tue-Wed 5p-12a
ThuFri    5p-2a
Sat: 9pm – 2am
Happy Hours:
Tues – Fri: 5pm – 9pm

Mr. Smith’s

If you are looking for a swanky place to go for great cocktails and may spot a few celebrities, then perhaps Mr. Smith’s is going to be your go-to spot. There have been reported sightings of celebs like Taye Diggs,, and Carson Daily, but that shouldn’t be the only reason why you stop by. The venue has three floors of sexiness that you’ve got to experience for yourself. The main room is filled with ornate mirrors with vintage flocked wallpaper and furnishings that look like they were straight from the Victorian era. If you want a refreshing experience with no attitude from the staff, then this is going to be a great place to visit.

Visit Them At:
34 7th St.
San Francisco, Ca. 94103
(415) 355-9991
Tues: 4:30pm – 10pm
Weds – Thurs: 4:30pm – 11pm
Fri: 4:30m – 2am
Sat: 9pm – 2am
Happy Hours:
Tue– Fri: 4:30pm – 8p

Of course, if you don’t want to go out because you’re too busy or you just don’t care for the bar scene, check out to meet local singles!

What are some of your favorite places to check out in the San Fran area to meet singles? What do you think of our top picks? Let us know in the comments below!

Author: Sandra Baker

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