Why Do Girls Play Hard to Get?
How many girls do you know that aren’t easy to ask on a date?
You have sent messages without response. Had brief phone calls and you are still wondering “is she playing hard to get?” There are some very obvious signs that she is not going to give you an easy ride and there are valid reasons as to why she is doing this.
In this blog we are going to look at the signs she will make if she is playing hard to get, whether or not this approach works and finally how you can get a girl that doesn’t seem interested in you.
Signs That She Likes You but is Playing Hard to Get
Does she ever send the first message? No? Does she respond to your messages when you do send one? If the answer is yes then this is a common sign that she is playing hard to get but is still interested in you. Girls often don’t want to make the first move or send that first message. If she doesn’t respond at all then she probably isn’t interested however if you send a message and she replies then this is a good sign that she is into you.
She may also try and make you jealous of other guys. This could be talking about her ex or even telling you about some guy that was hitting on her recently. She is trying to play hard to get to see how you react and if you continue to pursue her or give up.
Another sign that she’s playing hard to get is if she pretends to be busy if you ask her to do something at the last minute. She might actually be busy or it may be a ploy to pay hard to get – it shows you that she isn’t going to drop everything to go on a date with you. If she still goes out with you when you have plans arranged days or even weeks in advance then that is a good sign that she is interested.
Does Playing Hard to Get Work?
A lot of the time, yes, it does.
The reason for this is that a lot of men like a challenge. They enjoy the chase and it is a great feeling when it works out in the end. In other cases many men are put off by this approach especially if they don’t have a lot of confidence in themselves.
For many girls that approach lets me weed out the men that are really and genuinely interested in them in the long term and that is a major reason why they play hard to get with guys.
Once you have figured out the signs that she is playing hard to get then you can decide how to make your move.
If she just isn’t interested then you may as well move on. Spotting the signs can be difficult however we have outlined some of these signs above so that you have a better chance of figuring out if she is just playing hard to get or if she just isn’t that into you. The key is perseverance and to keep going. When a girl plays hard to get she wants you to keep messaging her and asking her out on a date because that shows that you are interested.
Not giving up is important.
Why Do Girls Play Hard to Get?
The main reason is that they are able to discover who is really interested in them for the long-term and who just wants a one night stand.
It may seem like a bad strategy and for many guys it actually puts them off girls who adopt this approach, for a lot of girls it is a necessary step. You might be wondering how to stop a girl from playing hard to get but this is difficult in itself. As long as you persevere and keep trying then as long as she is interested then she will stop playing heard to get after a certain period of time.
It can be a long road but it is one that can be well worth it in the end.
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Author: Alex Reddle
Alex Reddle – online dating specialist. He got his Psychological degree at Kent State University. He specializes in the subject of Interpersonal relationships, love, finding a partner. He likes to study human behavior and ways of communication. Being Chief Editor of Flirt.com blog he has conducted a big research in this sphere.