Where do you get to chat with singles in Dudley? Your local pub, dinner parties, bars, clubs, networking events, the gym…the possibilities are endless. Chances are if you hang out in the same circles though, you’ll run into the same people. Especially if you also tend to frequent the same places.
If you use chat rooms or, rather, online dating sites which come with chat, you suddenly have a lot more choice. A large percentage of singles these days use online dating. That means that you will find singles from all over Dudley and surrounding areas on there. Compared to your local pub there will be a lot more variety. And a lot more singles for that matter.
Chatting to someone online, as opposed to in a bar is sometimes a lot easier as well. No drunks. No awkward interactions with their tipsy friends. No loud music pumping (unless, of course you love listening to loud music at home whilst chatting away…). Online dating just simply makes it easy to find a lot of singles in one place. Singles whom it’s easy to approach and start a conversation with.
Online dating sites like Flirt.com come with built in chat, just like most social media sites do today. It’s no longer a Matrix kind of world where you have to understand everything about computers to be able to use a chat room.
On online dating sites most people either send a wink, or a message to signal they are interested in someone. If the person is online at the same time they are, they might send the message over chat instead. It means you can say something more direct, like “Wow, what an amazing profile! Would you like to join me for a chat?” As opposed when sending a message, where you have to include a few more lines about what you liked about their profile, etc. to ensure the message is personal.
When you meet someone at a bar you chat for maybe ten minutes to an hour before asking for their number. The same should happen online. Ask them if they want to grab a coffee some time. Online people may be more cautious and want to chat or message each other back and forth for what would, in total, amount to a longer time than you’d spend with someone at a bar. However, to really get to know if there’s chemistry you have to meet up, so do suggest a coffee or a drink sooner rather than later.