North Lanarkshire is a fairly large county and as such filled with singles. How do you meet those singles though? Well, meeting singles can be easy and it can be difficult.
Traditionally you meet singles through friends, as well as when going out to bars, pubs and clubs. If you’re lucky you might bump into cool singles at the gym, networking events, classes you’re attending, etc. and have an opportunity to talk to them.
The problem is that your social circle doesn’t always include that many single people, or single people with whom you have chemistry. Going to bars and the likes is hit and miss and other social events are rather random as well. We all wish that our next flirt would walk straight into our life the next time we stick our nose out the door, but it doesn’t always happen that way.
To up your odds by leaps and bounds when it comes to meeting singles you can join a dating site like Flirt.com, where there are thousands of singles in one place. Singles who are easily approachable. You can search for singles near you, or further afield - whatever floats your boat. It’s flirting made simple.
Approaching people and flirting with them online is not all that different from real life. The main difference is that people are for sure wanting to be approached and you know they’re single. And if you don’t spark their interest, there won’t be any awkward moments - you simply won’t hear back from them. A lot easier than trying to chat someone up at the local pub in North Lanarkshire in other words.
Things to bear in mind is politeness, spelling and grammar (including all those spellcheck mistakes…) as well as paying attention to them. When you first send a message make sure to include something about what caught your attention in their profile, not just some standardized message you send to everyone. People like feeling special.
Also, in the first message, don’t flirt too much. To create tension you need a gradual build-up.
If you aren’t a fan of messaging, and even if you are, try and move it offline as soon as possible to discover if you have chemistry in real life. Online dating websites are supposed to be meeting spots, not places where you stay once you’ve met.
Lastly, have fun! People will feel if you’re enjoying yourself when flirting with them.