Singles over 40 are blessed in many ways. Maybe you never imagined you’d one day be single in your 40s, but it can be the best thing that ever happened to you! Suddenly you have a chance to date and find love after 40, which is very different from dating and entering relationships in your 20s. Now you have experience. Now you know who you are. Now you know what you want. More than anything it gives you a chance to start over and do all the things you wish you did back then, but didn’t have the courage to, or just simply didn’t get round to. See it as a second chance to be who you want to be and having the single life you want to have, whilst looking for the big L. Finding love after 40 can be a lot of fun - fun you’d never be able to have in your 20s as you were in a completely different stage of life back then. Sure, it can be nerve-wracking to get back into the dating game if you’ve been in a long relationship, or you can feel tired if you’ve been single for some time, but all the more a reason to step it up and have some fun! Don’t let past heartaches get to you. The now is what matters.
If you are ready to get back in the dating game you should join an over 40 dating site, which is practically any site that is open to all ages. Online you’ll find 1000s of singles near you. There are some things to remember when going online that will make it more fun:
Write a profile which is fun and engaging; if you can’t then enlist someone else to do so.
Once you’ve established there's online chemistry, meet as soon as possible for a quick coffee or drink. Keep it short and sweet as you might be too confused by your real life selves to really make up your minds about each other. Save the proper date for the second meeting, when you’ve both adjusted.
Meet people even if you aren’t that into them online - some people are better in real life.
When contacting someone, make it personal. Send them a message complimenting something in their profile or asking a question about it.
Online dating is a numbers game. Contact anyone who catches your eye and go on as many dates as possible. Some will be fun, others not so much fun; enjoy the journey.
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