Age is just a number, which is why dating an older man or a younger man is commonplace these days - people have started to accept that love can happen regardless of age. Still, when you fall for an older man you might ask yourself if it’s really what you want? The truth is it will depend on what it is you are looking for in life. An older man is likely more settled, confident and happy about where he is at in life. That confidence and happiness can be very attractive. On the other hand he might already have had children and not want anymore, or he’s at a stage when he wants children and you haven’t planned for that until many years in the future. The important thing therefore isn’t age, but where you are both at in life and if that fits. The same goes for lifestyle; age isn’t as important as what kind of lifestyle he leads. His friends might also be older than your friends, but if you live in a bigger city chances are you mingle with people of all ages anyway. Older single men especially tend to be out and socializing a lot as they want to meet women.
If you want to date older men as you find them attractive, using a dating site makes perfect sense as you will find men of all ages on there. You will also be able to widen your search as you can find men from nearby towns and cities and not just men just where you live. This is one of the bigger perks with online dating - you aren’t restricted to your social circle or local bar. What’s more, as you get older the bar scene is often less appealing, as you have little time for it. Weekends are taken up by friends and family and work gets more demanding, so going to bars just doesn’t always happen that often, because there are more important social events. Sometimes it makes it harder meeting singles though which is why older men + dating site = true. I.e. older men these days often turn to dating sites to meet more singles than they already do through their social life. Old men is, of course, a relative term. When you’re in your twenties men in their thirties seem old, when you’re in your thirties, men in their forties or fifties might seem old.
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