We all want to go out and socialize and have a good time, hitting bars, pubs or simply going for dinner parties and networking events. We won’t necessarily meet a ton of singles where we go though. Especially if most of our friends are couples or our social network consists of a small close knit group of friends.
This is one of the reasons online dating sites with their chat rooms have taken the world with storm - suddenly you have thousands of singles at your disposal. Here you can meet singles from Edinburgh and beyond. You no longer have to rely on your social circle or going to bars/parties to meet someone to date. This makes your social life a lot more fun as there’s no pressure.
Chatting to someone online is an easy way to get a feel for who they are. It’s not going to be like real life, but you will definitively find out if you have “online chemistry.” From there you can decide whether to continue the flirting in real life.
Chat rooms are also great if you are trying to sneak in a bit of flirting in your office life - as opposed to a phone call not everyone will hear you flirting!
If you meet someone on Flirt.com you can send each other messages. Chatting is a bit more like real life though, whilst messages are like SMS. Before you hand out your number it can be great to chat for a while to find out if there’s an online spark. See if you have things in common, if you like flirting with each other and so on.
Chatting first will make the first phone call, or date, easier as you already know a few things you can speak about. Some people are also terrible on the phone and prefer to write or meet in real life. We’re all different when it comes to communication.
If you’re away in travels online dating sites and chat rooms on them are great ways of meeting people whom you can schedule dates with for when you get back.
Chatting online is of course not the final destination though. You have to meet up in person, sooner rather than later. Once you know there’s online chemistry schedule a date in Edinburgh so you can take it offline! It’s perfect to meet for a quick drink before going on a proper date for the second meeting! Keep it simple and enjoy as the tension builds…