Start Chatting in Stockport Today
The best way of approaching someone online? Send them a chat message or a PM. If they're online and available to chat, you will see that if you turn on your chat feature. Then it's simply a matter of sending them a chat message saying their profile caught your eye and you'd love to chat to find out more about them. Wink, wink.
If they're offline, shoot them a PM. Make sure it's a bit longer though - tell them what you liked about their profile, ask them a question about it and let them know you'd love to hear from them. That will show them you've put some effort into your message. Standardized PMs get very poor response rates, as do the "Hello, how are you?" messages. They show no personality and no real interest in the person you are sending them to.
Chatting to people online allows you to get a feel for who they are. One part of who they are. You have to meet up with them in Stockport to figure out if you like all parts of their personality. Don't let yourself get fooled by a first meeting either - when adjusting to their real life selves you might not be that attracted to them. Go on a second date to make sure your first impression was right as first impressions rarely last.