Have you ever been in a strip club and wondered how you can start dating a stripper of your very own?
Come on fellas, we know you’ve talked about it with your friends a time or two. How could you not?
These ladies are in wonderful physical condition, they are limber, they are highly sexual, and they are gorgeous. With all these qualities, you should keep in mind that there are certain things that will change your dating strategy when approaching a stripper.
Did you know that their job probably helps define their personality and because of that, you are probably going to have some unique challenges before you when starting a romantic relationship with one of these ladies? It’s important that you keep in mind that you are dating the woman, not her job.
With that said, here are important things that you will need to have when starting to date a stripper:
Just like any other job, exotic dancers are a dime a dozen when you approach them in their workplace, although many people would say that you probably wouldn’t want to hit on her while she is at work. If
this is the only place that you can meet these ladies, make sure that you are paying attention to her and only her. You will want to show that you are sincere in your desire to date them and that you only
frequent the venue because you are interested in them.
When you are approaching a stripper at her workplace, she may already assume that you are like every other guy in the place and want special treatment. It is important that you make your intentions known and make sure she is fully aware that you are serious about dating her. Don’t be alarmed if she turns you down at first, as most strippers prefer not to mix business with pleasure. However, if you communicate clearly your intentions, you can open her up to the idea to dating you and maybe even learn her rules of dating.
It is extremely rare that a stripper goes by her real name while she is at work. If you get lucky enough and close enough to the woman that you want to date to learn her real name, always use that name when addressing her. It reaffirms that you are serious about courting her and you don’t see her as the stripper but as the woman.
It isn’t unusual for strippers to have money thrown at them or be showered with expensive gifts by their clients in an effort to gain some sort of preferential treatment. You’re going to have to make bigger and grander attempts to woo her if you are serious about dating them. However, you will probably want to think outside of the box with these ladies. Instead of inviting her out to a fancy dinner, invite her out for a quiet picnic somewhere. Prepare a delicious meal for two and set up a nice spread at a park or somewhere romantic. If cooking isn’t your thing, you can still plan quiet dates that are low key and doesn’t pressure her too much on the sexual front. In fact, give her a reason to not be “on” and allow her to relax. This will allow her to open up to you and be herself, which is definitely a plus in her book.
Look, you’re going to be dating a woman who has guys ogle them on a nightly basis; this is how you two met after all! You cannot get jealous every time she goes to work and then comes home with random guys phone numbers or a bunch of singles in her bag. This is how she makes her living and it pays her bills. Also, if she is a popular dancer from a hot club, she will probably get noticed whenever you go out.
Don’t get offended, instead, be proud that your woman does her thing and is recognized for her work.
Plus, she’s with you. That should be enough!